You Never Change Things By Fighting The Existing Reality.
To Change Something, Build A New Model
That Makes The Existing Model Obsolete.
~ Buckminster Fuller

I have always wanted to change things: to upgrade them into something better. That’s why I chose life coaching, to help people upgrade the parts of their lives they didn’t like into something they preferred. 

I Was A Frustrated Life Coach

For years I have tried many different ways to empower my clients so that they wouldn’t be dependent on me or my services in order to create the life they love. 

I’ve tried:

  • Using NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) to make coaching sessions the most effective
  • Offering products and workshops to get the tools I use into my clients’ hands
  • Coaching people only when they feel they need it, rather than a therapy model of regular sessions
  • Encouraging each individual’s customized adoption of what works best for them

Even with all my efforts to upgrade it, the coaching model is inherently broken for the type of change I would like to offer to you and to our world.



Melissa Cantrelle

A New Model For Upgrading Your Life

AvatarThankfully, there IS a new model for upgrading your life that makes dependency-based models (like coaching) obsolete.

The Avatar® Courses are all of the materials, tools, structures, and community I wish for you and our world.

Avatar was elegantly designed by Harry Palmer in the late 1980’s and is sacredly delivered by a harmoniously orchestrated network of licensed Avatar Masters.

The first course, The Avatar Course, is 9 days of exercises that baby step you from wherever you are in your life to an enlightened state of knowing yourself as a Source Being, able to create and discreate with ease. 

Here are some of the “consciousness muscles” you develop in the 9-day course:

  • Activating your Aware Will so you can choose what you focus on
  • Uncovering the hidden beliefs that are causing your life to be like it is
  • Developing your deepest and truest ability to Feel what Is (in yourself and in others)
  • Letting go of judgments that lock you in to fixed perspectives and keep you from exploring opportunities
  • Creating your reality from a knowingness of yourself as a Source Being
  • Discreating thoughts, beliefs, feelings, life patterns, and any other limitations that keep you from fully creating what you choose to experience.
  • Knowing yourself as an Avatar: a being capable of stepping into and out of any form or creation.

When you have the experiences from the Avatar Course and use the Avatar tools in your daily life, you no longer require a life coach. 

You may still choose to use other tools you enjoy (like meditation, visioning, etc), but you will be using them as a fully empowered Avatar, confidently capable of deciding your direction in life.  (and frankly, I go to my Avatar tools first and rarely desire anything else).


Closing Doors and Opening Windows

So that’s it:  I’m closing the doors to my Catalize Life Coaching business.  It’s been an amazing 15 years of growth for myself and my clients. 

butterflyFor the growth to continue, it’s time for something new.  It’s time to open the windows of opportunity and allow the space for all of us to fly free, fully empowered, creating our lives and our world as we like it.

If you want to change your life, to upgrade some or all of it, then I encourage you to come explore your possibilities through the Avatar Course.  You can learn more about it and my journey with Avatar here:

Open the window, take a whiff of the fresh air, and come develop your wings so you can soar on a journey of your own creating. 

I am right here with you.


Melissa Cantrelle
Avatar Master



"The best you can do for anyone is to thrive fully and be willing to explain to anyone who asks how it is that you are thriving, and what it is that you've discovered — and then, just relax and trust that all truly is well."



"When we perceive that the only difference between us is our beliefs, and that beliefs can be created or discreated with ease, the right and wrong game will wind down, a co-create game will unfold, and world peace will ensue."

~Harry Palmer, author of the Avatar® Materials

And It's Time You
Own Your Brilliance &
Bring Your Light to the World!



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